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Please help me?
Japanese I am a single mother, got divorced 16 years ago. and now lives with my daughter and my grandmother (85 years). has a memory like a sieve, and not hear well, have a leg problem.I can not bear it anymore. I asked my mother to live with her forever away her.but the problem. I treatment for severe depression. I am the daughter is mentally exhausted.my 17.she going to college next year. I have to think about your school expenses and my old age. Last month I called a crisis center but she did not give me any advice. I really do not know what to do.
People should not expect to take care of it. By Of course I love her, but their willingness to care for her or not. You should find a place for your grandmother, maybe a nursing home. If your mom does not want her, then a nursing home is your best bet. Just please promise me you will not let it go ahead. You are very depressed and has a son, you have to do too much too worry. Put your grandmother in a nursing home, that's what you should do. You will feel bad at first, but after a while it will be the best feeling and you will be much better.
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